I find the quantification of sin as dark or biggest, greater completely cringe. it is the most immature of reasonings from whom I would assume is a thinking man. the truer issue is that once we know we are forgiven, loved and cleaned why do we attach these mundane human values to the supernatural occurrence God is. this is a pastor, on his hands and knees, and this apology insults cause man can not be concerned with the sin of another man. he is crawling when he should be standing in the tomorrow helping other's stand in the tomorrow.. but hell .. I'm this way too