A lack of dentity

Are you moving in reverse if while standing still new revelations occur? If a decision is made, but you get new information about yourself do you get a do over? Trust me I’m not saying anything different than things I’ve said before but this new look at myself, we’ll let’s just say now that it’s my feelings I’m paying attention to and not the absence of anyone else’s feelings .. I am able in ways I have never imagined.